寧姨姨攜男友探Caelum仔記

石小姐與男友星期日中午抵紐西蘭，我們一家大小去接機。男友長相果然如小王子的祖母所說一樣不錯，很親切。我心底裡暗暗感動流涕，小姐終於找到一戶好人家。

第一天和他們去了(N)One Tree Hill，昨天和他們出去市中心，又駕車過橋去Devonport。今天中午我把他們兩個送去內陸機場，飛往Queenstown遊南島。

臨行前我要他們和Caelum合一合照，以證他們有來探過他啦～

還有，這是石小姐今早影的：

Five Years

Today is our five years wedding anniversary, and Caelum is 8 weeks old.

So, five years.

…

I wanted to write something about it, but end up, can’t even think of a word. Sometimes happy, sometimes sad. We had good times and bad times, like all other couples in this world. Sometimes there’s something missing, like now, when we both are too busy with Caelum as well as our work and other stuff. Although Nick usually doesn’t agree there’s something missing, I would still try to search this missing piece. From time to time I may find it, but for a while we may lose it again. It doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong between us, but the spark is not obvious, and I desperately need to find it.

Nevertheless, I realise having a child make us enter another form of this relationship, which causes both of us have less time and thoughts for each other unavoidably. An arrival of baby causes some gap, but also fill the gap.

I guess once we are more used to having an extra family member, we will find our equilibrium again.

No matter what, it’s a happy thing to be married with my little prince for five years. We left Caelum with my parents and went out for dinner last night. :)

Seven years

Two days ago was my 7 years Anniversary at Olympic Software. Seven years, man, since I graduated from university I have been working there for Joe. It’s always good time, never thought about leaving. Partly because of all  the freedom I got here, partly because of the love.

So doughnuts I brought to work.

FFIII

最近我湊Caelum以外就係做呢樣嘢：

六週歲

Caelum六個星期大了。日日見他不太為意，看相才發現他長大了許多。0000的衣服已太短，因為長高了。為著不浪費，我動手剪了包著腳掌的地方，再用衣車收好褲腳，在家睡時穿也好。Caelum現在要穿三至六個月的衣服，雖然有一點長，總比有一點短、阻礙生長的好。

頭髮依然很多，別人說會掉些，我又不覺得有減少。臉和頸依然胖，也不知像誰！我小時是圓臉（現在也。。。），但不是這麼多肉的啊！身很厚，有點肚腩；手腳不是很粗，但很大力。阿仔，你阿媽我唔鍾意肥仔㗎！

喜歡俯臥著睡，但只有日間我看著他時才可由他這樣。不過現在日間已睡很少，因為有光他就很難睡得著。然而夜裡還是常常醒來。再過一星期我就放他到他的房間去睡。

餵奶的啟示

雖然已經停止餵人奶，但我也想說一下在整個過程中學到的事情，非常認真的。

一、有胸唔等於有奶。我胸都唔算細，但係就係冇 - 有啲嘢同外表係不一嘅。

二、冇奶就飲幾多魚湯木瓜湯都係冇奶 - 有時啲嘢無法強求。

三、胸係一對但唔係完全一樣，出奶量同速度都唔同 - 連一個人嘅胸都可以有差異，世界上係無identical嘅人嘅，神造人每個都係獨特嘅。

四、Caelum因為一邊胸出奶慢同少所以每次我要佢食嗰邊胸佢都極其厭惡。Birthcare個midwife話，都要佢食，無得㨂。好多家長就係小朋友唔鍾意就由得佢，縱壞晒 - 人大咗唔係咩唔鍾意就可以唔要唔做，有時唔鍾意，都要繼續。

五、無奶唔一定係壞事，對某些事可能更方便 - 有時冥冥中早有安排，度身定做好一套適合個別嘅人嘅狀況。

六、如果壓力好大，又有罪疚感，不如唔好餵，唔好為同其他人交代，又唔好為同自己交代。唔需要不停找尋別人嘅approval。

七、好多時pump到一半Caelum就喊要理佢 - 有啲嘢根本就唔到你控制。

咕咕

爸媽家有兩隻鴿子，不知是何時搬進來的。牠們和爸媽感情很好，見到爸媽回家會飛來打招呼，又會跟著爸爸。爸媽叫牠們咕咕，因為牠們咕咕叫的。

這天牠們在媽媽的手上吃麵包。

口味唔同

小姐，阿Rain有咩好呀。。。？！咁大隻。。。

點講都係水嶋ヒロ好啲。。。不過人家息影了。。。:(

Lose yourself

Have I posted this before? This is one of my favourite ad. I think it's really romantic and I would love to be found or find someone like this.

國際支援組

老爸自稱是國際支援組組長 - 對湊仔作技術支援。他對Caelum說我媽只是組員，叫他要聽組長話。然而手中的Caelum一哭，就送到我媽手去，說組長要分配工作。

組長的工作也真的很繁忙，最主要的一項是支援洗衣。須知道Caelum有時一天要換兩三件衣服，少了這支援大概很麻煩。

組員的工作主要是充當一張人肉床，附帶催眠功效。Caelum很喜歡婆婆抱，總是睡得很安樂。

現實

睇阿寧嘅網誌：

終於看了這套電影
男女主角選角得宜
拍得清新可人
但我會想
要不是男主角高大可愛
那些打手槍的情節
在家裸跑的情節
把筆子插入鼻孔的情節
畢竟令人感到低俗難堪

嘿
可愛的男生就是做甚麼都可愛
醜男就做甚麼都討人厭
世界就是如此現實了

我記得和幾個人多次談論這個話題：靚仔就乜都得，唔靚仔就乜都唔得。

譬如，如果梁朝偉日日寫情信俾你就係浪漫，八両金就係變態。

又譬如，如果畢彼得日日去你公司樓下等你放工時偷望你就係癡情，章魚城就係跟蹤狂。

再譬如，如果係金城武個call台密碼係「愛你一萬年」就係型，但係唔需要醜男，只係諗你其中一個唔係特別靚仔嘅男仔朋友用哩個密嗎，可能都已經有啲嘔。

其實唔係淨係男人嘅。

如果王菲日日偷偷去你屋企幫你慢慢換晒屋企啲嘢又喺你張床上面揾其他女人嘅頭髮就係傻，肥花就係精神有問題。

哩個世界就係咁現實㗎喇。