26 March 2009

馭男

博客來傳來了新書電郵,對我這個沒有credit card也從來未試過在網上買任何東西的人而言通常只是看看,若見到有興趣的就抄下來(用紙和筆),等下次有熟人回港就托人找找。聽起來不太適合我這種所謂的電腦人,在跟別人說要eCommerce時有點欠缺說服力,哈哈。

噢,我不是想說這個。

今次電郵裡介紹的書名叫《心機公主馭男48招》,看到後我引不住笑了。真的有人寫和賣這樣的書的嗎?又真的有人看嗎?某人說過若見到一個女孩(漂亮)坐在室外看書,好像很「型」的樣子,然而走近一看是星座書的話,立刻便大大大打折扣了。現在我想星座書相比下還算可以。試想在巴士上偶遇一個看上去很有氣質的女孩,走近發現她在看此書;又或者去到媽的朋友家,他們的女兒青春美麗看上去舉止合適優雅大方,然而參觀書房時看見這位小姐的書架上放著這樣的一本書。。。怎麼樣?
如果妳能夠將男人看透,
妳自然會知道該怎麼做、做什麼。
這不是心機,不過是追求幸福的方法罷了!
癡線,我幹麼要把男人看透?

25 March 2009

Doggies

These are the three dogs I saw in Enoch's birthday party. Does the first one look like the dragon in The Neverending Story? :D The last one is the one that play dead.



24 March 2009

腦

打完Badminton,回家吃了媽媽的愛心飯盒。老媽的手勢的而且確不是太多普通媽媽能比較的。

吃蝦的時候,我想,有沒有動物腦子不是生在頭裡面的呢?可惜以我有限的知識實在想不到,還望知情人士指點指點。

打Badminton好,吃飯也很好。生活真快樂。

23 March 2009

一百元的浪漫

昨日阿智和我討論某人所說的「一百元一枝玫瑰比一元一枝玫瑰浪漫」,他贊成,我依舊摸不著頭腦。

浪漫某程度上是用平常時不會做的事情堆砌出來,這個我同意;但是不是金錢總能達到更好的效果呢?我卻很難有同感。拿著一百元的玫瑰,我大概覺得。。。一,這個男人浪費;二,這個男人無內涵;三,這個男人拿錢來「韃我」。我說我寧願他花些時間做一些東西給我,或是畫一幅畫,或是作一首曲,或是做一本相簿,或是寫一首詩。阿智說做一樣東西,就說要三小時,那就是用了三小時能賺取的金錢了。我倒不信有人廿四小時也在工作。

最重要的是心意。這些年來小王子或多或少送了些東西給我,其實有很多及不上當年他因為我喜歡吃果汁軟糖內的士多啤梨味而總是買那種糖,又吃了我不太喜歡吃的,剩下士多啤梨味給我。收到我唯一一個很貴的袋是很開心的,但徹頭徹尾和金錢上的價值無關,只單純是因為背後的意義。就金錢的層面我不認為那比我的Classic Pooh們值得。所以我不要第二個,一點也不希望收到第二個。甚至覺得若小王子無故又買一個昂貴的袋給我,是破壞了第一個的意義,大概像侮辱了那份感情一樣。

小王子倒不是太看心意的人,當然他會否認,但以多年送禮物給他的經驗,我絕對清楚。不過,那不是他的問題,那是大部份男人的看法吧。舉個例說,有一次小王子說他夜裡冷,於是我買了張被給他,他倒是想我買Nike的一個袋給他。阿智說男人看Function,女人則看感性。

我的浪漫絕不是金錢能堆砌的。若男人用他不能承擔的金錢做出一些疑似浪漫的東西,又或者過份浪費,我大概絲毫不會覺得浪漫。或者說,我覺得浪漫的事情,都和金錢沒有太大掛勾呢。。。

其實,如果小王子昨天在吃我們一起買的那包巧克力蛋時記起應該留點給老婆吃,不應獨獨跟其他女性朋友坐著瓜分了一整包的話,我也覺得夠浪漫了。

無奈,或者人長大了,變得沒甚麼心思。

21 March 2009

A Good Saturday

It's a nice day today.

We went to Enoch's 21st party. It's a cool party. Nice weather, good food, good speeches, heaps of people. My little-prince left early for a wedding, I prefer not to go to that wedding. So I stayed for a bit longer. Parents and brother went to the party as well. It's interesting to see daddy's face turn red and a bit embarrassed when Enoch specially thanked him for teaching him academic and life experience. Myself? I ate too much, and probably gained some more weight, hahaha. Who cares.

They were three cute dogs. I took photo of them with the crappy camera on my phone again. Let me post them up later. One of them looks like the dragon in the Neverending Story. Jacky said that's a dragon though. I said that's a dragon with dog face, he said maybe it's this dog has a dragon face.



I unintentionally stepped on a foot of one of the dogs, because he's too small. This baby, cried and instantly lied on the ground with his back and play dead. Ya, play dead! Crazy and cunning.

After I left the party, I went to Botany to do some shopping. I know! I know! But I haven't do any shopping for months already... Have been behaving so well since I started learning guitar! ANYWAY. Forgive me this one single time. It's just that I only have one pair of working trousers, I need another pair... and end up bought some other things.

When I came home, the weather was so good . Irresistibly I took out my outdoor chair and 小幸, had some fun under the sun, until the sun was too strong even for my back. Lovely.

Tonight we are going to Chris' place. Probably a round of Shadow, depends on whether we have enough people or not.