一次

如果我們任性一次。

如果我們隨私欲一次。

如果我們不顧後果一次。

如果我們忘記不可以一次。

如果我們放棄抗爭自己一次。

大概甚麼也可以發生。

生日禮物

小叔送來了綠色小熊給我和孩子，非常可愛，有點詫異他選這個的品味還不俗。

今年不是收到很多生日禮物，但祝福的心意都收到了。令我頗驚喜的是營裡收到的生日哠，許多人也留了幾句，很感動呢。不是客氣的話，真的感到被愛。

至於小王子送了甚麼給我。。。很明顯吧！

大薯

祖祖同阿賢送咗個特大薯頭俾我，內有薯頭一家四口。收到時我諗：「吓，我諗住生一個咋喎！」

兩歲便可玩，我決定等兩年俾個細路玩！

Expression

Women like to talk about their feelings, men like to hide. Not just feelings, but loves and hates, opinions and beliefs, everything relating to the inner mind. Not all women, maybe. Not trying to generalize here.

Why women like to express so much more? I cannot speak for others, but when I think about this myself, I guess it's because we believe if we don't say it then men people won't know and understand. And to women being known and understood are so important because these are things indicating they are being loved.

Men on the other hand, don't mind people not knowing about them nor not understanding them as much. Moreover to them not being known and not being understood has nothing to do with being loved or not. And remember, men usually know they are being loved - they just want to be respected. To be respected, speaking about their feelings and emotions do not help - maybe they even believe the opposites work better.

No conclusion on this, just a thought.

尋

想找一個怎樣的伴侶，和真正對哪個人心動，許多時沒多大關係。你可以說我不切實際，但我相信帶著一些要求或標準去判定對方是否適合的話，離愛情的感覺非常遙遠。當然，尋找伴侶不等如要談戀愛；愛對方愛家庭也不等如要有心動的感覺。

突然說起這些，因為昨晚和朋友談起這些。

男人哪個不想要一個溫柔體貼的女人；女人哪個不想要一個精神上經濟上也能照顧自己的男人。