Amor

Had a conversation with a dude the other day, suddenly, out of a boring work day, I pondered on several things again, and talked to Stephan(ie) about some.

Relationship is a hard eh. You fall in love, you break up, then you have to either move on or stay heart broken. Who is “the one”? Or there can be ones? Is “the one” a changeable factor? So you move on, you find another one to be “the one”. Actually, I don’t believe there is one and only one. The more I live and see on this world, the more I realise there is more than one person in the world could fit you. There’s more than one person in the world you can develop relationship with and fall in love with each other.

Would there be people you know definitely it’s a “no”? Ya… I have to agree with this one. Actually, versa vice, there are people you would know it’s a definite “yes”. Doesn't mean it will work out for sure, and doesn’t mean you fall in love in first sight, yes you know it’s a “yes” if one party has decided to make a move. There are people, no matter how long they know each other, no spark at all; but there are people, always, have something between them, that is too obvious to ignore. Sometimes, a definite “yes” is a problem too.

See love is a difficult issue.

No wonder guys around me keep saying there’s no point for them to find a girlfriend. They can do more when they are single, like spending money, cooking (alright this is just one guy), get drunk… although I think part of these sayings is because they do not have someone. :P

Oh well.