26 March 2009

馭男

博客來傳來了新書電郵,對我這個沒有credit card也從來未試過在網上買任何東西的人而言通常只是看看,若見到有興趣的就抄下來(用紙和筆),等下次有熟人回港就托人找找。聽起來不太適合我這種所謂的電腦人,在跟別人說要eCommerce時有點欠缺說服力,哈哈。

噢,我不是想說這個。

今次電郵裡介紹的書名叫《心機公主馭男48招》,看到後我引不住笑了。真的有人寫和賣這樣的書的嗎?又真的有人看嗎?某人說過若見到一個女孩(漂亮)坐在室外看書,好像很「型」的樣子,然而走近一看是星座書的話,立刻便大大大打折扣了。現在我想星座書相比下還算可以。試想在巴士上偶遇一個看上去很有氣質的女孩,走近發現她在看此書;又或者去到媽的朋友家,他的女兒青春美麗看上去舉止合適優雅大,然而參觀書房時看見這小姐的書架上放著這樣的一本書。。。怎麼樣?
如果妳能夠將男人看透,
妳自然會知道該怎麼做、做什麼。
這不是心機,不過是追求幸福的方法罷了!
癡線,我幹麼要把男人看透?

25 March 2009

Doggies

These are the three dogs I saw in Enoch's birthday party. Does the first one look like the dragon in The Neverending Story? :D The last one is the one that play dead.



24 March 2009

打完Badminton,回家吃了媽媽的愛心飯盒。老媽的手勢的而且確不是太多普通媽媽能比較的。

吃蝦的時候,我想,有沒有動物腦子不是生在頭裡面的呢?可惜以我有限的知識實在想不到,還望知情人士指點指點。

打Badminton好,吃飯也很好。生活真快樂。

23 March 2009

一百元的浪漫

昨日阿智和我討論某人所說的「一百元一枝玫瑰比一元一枝玫瑰浪漫」,他贊成,我依舊摸不著頭腦。

浪漫某程度上是用平常時不會做的事情堆砌出來,這個我同意;但是不是金錢總能達到更好的效果呢?我卻很難有同感。拿著一百元的玫瑰,我大概覺得。。。一,這個男人浪費;二,這個男人無內涵;三,這個男人拿錢來「韃我」。我說我寧願他花些時間做一些東西給我,或是畫一幅畫,或是作一首曲,或是做一本相簿,或是寫一首詩。阿智說做一樣東西,就說要三小時,那就是用了三小時能賺取的金錢了。我倒不信有人廿四小時也在工作。

最重要的是心意。這些年來小王子或多或少送了些東西給我,其實有很多及不上當年他因為我喜歡吃果汁軟糖內的士多啤梨味而總是買那種糖,又吃了我不太喜歡吃的,剩下士多啤梨味給我。收到我唯一一個很貴的袋是很開心的,但徹頭徹尾和金錢上的價值無關,只單純是因為背後的意義。就金錢的層面我不認為那比我的Classic Pooh們值得。所以我不要第二個,一點也不希望收到第二個。甚至覺得若小王子無故又買一個昂貴的袋給我,是破壞了第一個的意義,大概像侮辱了那份感情一樣。

小王子倒不是太看心意的人,當然他會否認,但以多年送禮物給他的經驗,我絕對清楚。不過,那不是他的問題,那是大部份男人的看法吧。舉個例說,有一次小王子說他夜裡冷,於是我買了張被給他,他倒是想我買Nike的一個袋給他。阿智說男人看Function,女人則看感性。

我的浪漫絕不是金錢能堆砌的。若男人用他不能承擔的金錢做出一些疑似浪漫的東西,又或者過份浪費,我大概絲毫不會覺得浪漫。或者說,我覺得浪漫的事情,都和金錢沒有太大掛勾呢。。。

其實,如果小王子昨天在吃我們一起買的那包巧克力蛋時記起應該留點給老婆吃,不應獨獨跟其他女性朋友坐著瓜分了一整包的話,我也覺得夠浪漫了。

無奈,或者人長大了,變得沒甚麼心思。

21 March 2009

A Good Saturday

It's a nice day today.

We went to Enoch's 21st party. It's a cool party. Nice weather, good food, good speeches, heaps of people. My little-prince left early for a wedding, I prefer not to go to that wedding. So I stayed for a bit longer. Parents and brother went to the party as well. It's interesting to see daddy's face turn red and a bit embarrassed when Enoch specially thanked him for teaching him academic and life experience. Myself? I ate too much, and probably gained some more weight, hahaha. Who cares.

They were three cute dogs. I took photo of them with the crappy camera on my phone again. Let me post them up later. One of them looks like the dragon in the Neverending Story. Jacky said that's a dragon though. I said that's a dragon with dog face, he said maybe it's this dog has a dragon face.



I unintentionally stepped on a foot of one of the dogs, because he's too small. This baby, cried and instantly lied on the ground with his back and play dead. Ya, play dead! Crazy and cunning.

After I left the party, I went to Botany to do some shopping. I know! I know! But I haven't do any shopping for months already... Have been behaving so well since I started learning guitar! ANYWAY. Forgive me this one single time. It's just that I only have one pair of working trousers, I need another pair... and end up bought some other things.

When I came home, the weather was so good . Irresistibly I took out my outdoor chair and 小幸, had some fun under the sun, until the sun was too strong even for my back. Lovely.

Tonight we are going to Chris' place. Probably a round of Shadow, depends on whether we have enough people or not.

19 March 2009

非常疑惑

老祖話我地有鍾意過同一個人,唯一一次。。。有咩?我真係一啲印象都無喎?邊個呀?

18 March 2009

17 March 2009

結局

趁還有點時間,寫兩句廢話。

還沒有讀完手頭上的書,貪得無厭的我已開始看新書了。有時候真的有點討厭自己,總是開了個頭不願意完滿收場。看書是這樣,打機也是這樣,就是花了那麼多小時練到角色們隨手就可以打敗「大佬」,還是不願意去行最後那一步去結束遊戲(所以我看過的ending少之有少)。還不知這是甚麼心態呢。。。身邊大部份認識的人好像沒有這個問題,就是我一個人永遠不願意走到結尾。

或者我重視的一向不是結局,而是過程。如果只是結局才有意義的事情,大概我不會很樂意做。

看罷星期日檔案

今早,我想,為甚麼有些女孩會成為人們口中的「港女」。

大概是因為從沒機會發現愛上一個人是可以很沒尊嚴。

12 March 2009

我要努力向上

昨天我們又去了爬假石(笑),小王子進步了許多呢。我嘛,因前一天打了羽毛球,而我這種十年不做一次運動的死蛇打一小時羽毛球就周身骨痛了。。。誇張了少許,只是手腳痛而已。昨晚沒剩下太多能量向上爬,又是連汗都沒一滴的爬石會!太失敗了(何等失態)!深覺自己非常不健康的我,決定多做運動。。。聽住先。

難度我也要像蔣小姐一樣用好幾個感嘆號來強調我脆弱的決心!!!其實不用吧,她就說要「嫁的光榮,嫁的體面,嫁的有素質,嫁的有身材」,我這個已嫁了的人,其實可以散漫一點,當Social就好了吧?!嘿嘿,周小姐,你已在給未來的失敗預先解釋一番嗎?不太好哦~~

把Kat也拉進來了,希望有一個和我一樣Social的人可以持衡我的決心!XD

lele...你這條爛鱔要參與爬石會嗎?:D

10 March 2009

About lunch time

I am very hungry already. We are going out for a Thai lunch today.

I should stock up more food from supermarket so I can save some money. :D

Today is still a busy day. Just not as focus as last week. Less coding, more talking again.

09 March 2009

眼訓

昨晚早早睡了,今晨鬧鐘響時,還是很不想起床。

還有十九分鐘才見客。

05 March 2009

Simple


So this is where you are... XD

work work

There are heaps of work to do this week. I am so tired.

I hope my little-prince is fine by himself.

03 March 2009

02 March 2009

Smile

星期一

其實一個星期的開始該是星期日,然而對我這些要上班的人來說還是星期一像開始,還總是一個痛苦的開始,因為離下一個週末最遠,通常是最不想上班的。

再辛苦也是過了。有點肚餓。

精神非常散亂,很累。